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Dr. Zsámboki János's avatar

Klement, I usually like your blog, but with this "Infantilised" stuff you totally misunderstand the world and the younger generations.

So you do not like names from fantasy books? Like Joachim, the father of the Virgin Mary from an iron-age fantasy book? This is the oldest tradition we have, most of the people are named after characters from folk tales, myths, religious books what you could call "fantasy". I am named after John the Baptist, my sister after an old middle-eastern goddess, my older son got the name of a mythical Hungarian warrior, my younger son was named after the father of Attila the Hun, my wife is the exception, she bears a latinized Germanic name meaning glorious. My friend is named after a character in a fantasy theatrical play from 1830. I had three uncles, they were named after the first Hungarian king, who ascended to sainthood, one of the sons of Attila the Hun, and the third one got a name meaning "ruler" in the old Ottoman empire. This is literally our oldest tradition, if you check the origins of the names of your family, you will be surprised how many of them are named after "fantasy" characters. My grandmother was named after Helen of Troy originally, but in her adulthood she chose to be named after the wife of Abraham instead. This has been a norm for thousands of years, it is a bit of an exaggeration to blame GenZ for it.

The same with adults enjoying made-up stories. This has been the main source of entertainment since we learned how to speak at the dawn of humanity. Every generation indulged in this jut their myths changed a little bit. My grandmother was highly religious she always told stories about saints. My father was atheist, but he knew the stories of every semi-famous football player in Europe since the seventies. My mother knew the life story of every single actress from the golden age of Hollywood and frequently told how this or that actress fared. I do prefer Star Wars of Warhammer 40k, as I like these mythologies better, but it is a stretch to say that this is in any way different from the lore on saints or actors or football players.

The only problematic usage of mythologies I have ever seen if you deny them and want reality to work like your myths. If a generation wants to decide economic policies, who to support in a war, the regulation of inventions, or scientific research by taking their myths seriously and treating them as reality. Statistically speaking you are more likely to hold completely made-up myths as absolute truth than not. And that is problematic, our greatest civilisational errors were made using this method.

So please do not worry about the guy who enjoys Star Wars but realizes that it is not real, but a made-up story invented for his entertainment! Worry about the completely adult boomer, who takes completely made-up stories about Monsanto as the absolute truth and destroys everything around him because he can not recognize folk tales as not being factual! Which one do you think is more mature?

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Andi's avatar

Infantilised: How Our Culture Killed Adulthood (Keith Haywar)

I notice that in the business world many people associate being an adult with not having a sense of humor and joking around...I don't care, I'll remain a giggling creature at > 50...(probably less true for the UK, Switzerland/Germany more so...)

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